The law of attraction has the same connotation with the
bible's verse what you sow is what you reap. If you lack self confidence, you
can develop it by giving or promoting
high steem for others. If you don't
have friends, you can have friends by
getting genuinely interested with the other people. If you feel you're unloved,
you can have this by starting to love and be compassionate with others.
May nakausap ako, sabi niya, “You cannot give what you don't
have.” Sabi pa niya, “I can't love him because I hate him so much.” Then I told her, "Love him." Panu
ko siya mamahalin eh galit na galit ako sa
kanya,” balik niya sa akin. Sabi ko ulit
sa kanya, “Then love her.”” Panu nga? sabi
naman niya.” Ang tanong ko uli naman sa
kanya, "What is the product of giving forgiveness and sacrifice to win his
heart again. She answered Love. LOVE is
a NOUN. To love is a VERB. And verb
is an action word. So to get love(noun)
, you have to act and give love (verb). Because your ultimate goal is to become
LOVEABLE, LIKEABLE, TRUSTWORHTY and RESPECTABLE. And if you do these stuff, the magic
of the law of attraction will come to you naturally, people will find you
likable, trustworthy, respectable and high steemed person.
Here are some good tips from Brian Tracy, a well known writer, speaker and businessman.
The deepest human desire is to desire to feel important. When you go thru life building
self confidence and making other people feel important and valuable they will
like you, welcome you and will open every door for you. And this is how to become magnetic both professionally and personally. In
business, making people feel important will help you in every business
situation from negotiating terms, to borrowing
money, influencing key customers. If you
are in sales the way customers will feel with you, will determine your level of
sales and referrals more than any other
factor. Being magnetic will make you
popular, desirable, influential and persuasive. As the poet said, anyone can forget everything
you have said, but they will always
remember the feelings attached to it.
First, just smile, on open honest happy to see you smile
wants people’s heart makes them feel
important and causes them unconsciously to like you from the first
moment. Each person has a deep down
mean to be accepted unconditionally by other people. Without judgement
or criticism. And your smile tells them that you accept them and like them unconditionally.
Second, promote highest
self steem in others with
appreciation. Every one loves to be appreciated for something. Anything that they have done to someone else. And when you say the magic word thank you more
often, you make peole feel important and happy.
You raise their self steem,
increase their desire to help you and to do things for you.
Third, give genuine compliments whenever you admire a possession, trade,
accomplishments about this. As Abrahan
Lincolm said. “ Every likes
compliments, admire people choices in
clothing, hairstyle, cars, briefcase, purse
or even his office lamp. Admire their homes or partners, degree or certificate, Whenever you give compliments
genuinely he or she has obviously invested time and emotion., you boost her
self image and built high steem. As a
result, they will find you charming.
Fourth, build their confidence through approval of others.
Give praise and approval generously for both small and large accomplishments.
When there is something worthwhile, say how good they are on the job they done.
Build them self confidence and high self steem. When you praise your spouse or
children, when you praise your staff, customers and suppliers you make them
feel important and cause them to see u as charming,
Fifth, give them full attention. People feel valuable and
important when you are listening and respected. Whenever you listen
closely to another person when he is talking, his self steem goes up. His brain
releases endorphin which means human
nature’s happy drug, And he feels
good about his ignored presence.
If you always pays value to a person by listening attentively
by hanging on every word when you do she wants
up to you finds you to be charming.
If you go life looking for little opportunities
to make people valuable and special, smile at them, as you are glad to
see them. Thank them regularly, complement them sincerely, praise them lavishly,
listen to them attentively when they speak.
What you had wholeheartedly
given, it will bring back to you thousand folds of blessings.
Let's remember it by the acronym ST. CAPAL. Smile, say Thank you, Compliment, Approval/Praise & Attention/Listening.
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