Do you want to be likeable, trustworthy and respectable professionally or personally?

The law of attraction has the same connotation with the bible's verse what you sow is what you reap. If you lack self confidence, you can develop it  by giving or promoting high steem  for others. If you don't have  friends, you can have friends by getting genuinely interested with the other people. If you feel you're unloved, you can have this by starting to love and be compassionate with others.  

May nakausap ako, sabi niya, “You cannot give what you don't have.” Sabi pa niya, “I can't love him because I hate him so much.”  Then I told her, "Love him." Panu ko  siya mamahalin  eh galit na galit ako sa kanya,” balik niya sa akin.  Sabi ko ulit sa kanya,  “Then love her.”” Panu nga? sabi naman niya.”  Ang tanong ko uli naman sa kanya, "What is the product of giving forgiveness and sacrifice to win his heart again. She answered Love.  LOVE is a NOUN. To love is a  VERB.  And  verb is an action word. So to  get love(noun) , you have to act and give love (verb). Because your ultimate goal is to become LOVEABLE, LIKEABLE, TRUSTWORHTY and RESPECTABLE. And if you do these stuff, the magic of the law of attraction will come to you naturally, people will find you likable, trustworthy, respectable and high steemed person.

Here are some good tips from Brian Tracy, a well known writer,  speaker and businessman.

The deepest human desire is to desire to feel  important. When you go thru life building self confidence and making other people feel important and valuable they will like you, welcome you and will open every door for  you. And this is how to become magnetic  both professionally and personally. In business, making people feel important will help you in every business situation from negotiating terms, to  borrowing money,  influencing key customers. If you are in sales the way customers will feel with you, will determine your level of sales and referrals  more than any other factor. Being magnetic  will make you popular, desirable, influential and persuasive. As  the poet said, anyone can forget everything you have said,  but they will always remember  the feelings  attached to it. 

First, just smile, on open honest happy to see you smile wants people’s heart  makes them feel important and causes  them  unconsciously to like you from  the first  moment. Each person has a deep down  mean to be accepted unconditionally by other people. Without judgement or criticism. And your smile tells them that you accept them and like them  unconditionally.

Second, promote highest  self steem  in others with appreciation. Every one loves to be appreciated for something. Anything  that they have done to someone else. And  when you say the magic word thank you more often, you make peole feel important and happy.  You raise their self steem,  increase their desire to help you and to do things for you.

Third, give genuine compliments whenever you  admire a possession, trade, accomplishments  about this. As Abrahan Lincolm said. “  Every likes compliments,  admire people choices in clothing, hairstyle, cars, briefcase, purse  or even his office lamp. Admire their homes or partners, degree  or certificate, Whenever you give compliments genuinely he or she has obviously invested time and emotion., you boost her self image  and built high steem. As a result, they will find you charming.

Fourth, build their confidence through approval of others. Give praise and approval generously for both small and large accomplishments. When there is something worthwhile, say how good they are on the job they done. Build them self confidence and high self steem. When you praise your spouse or children, when you praise your staff, customers and suppliers you make them feel important and cause them to see u as charming,

Fifth, give them full attention. People feel  valuable and  important when you are listening and respected. Whenever you listen closely to another person when he is talking, his self steem goes up. His brain releases endorphin which means human  nature’s happy drug,  And he feels good about his ignored  presence.

If you always pays value to a person by listening attentively by hanging on every word when you do she wants  up to you finds you to be charming.

If you go life looking for little  opportunities  to make people valuable and special, smile at them, as you are glad to see them. Thank them regularly, complement them sincerely, praise them lavishly, listen to them attentively when they speak.

What you had wholeheartedly  given, it will bring back to you thousand folds of blessings.

Let's  remember it by the acronym ST. CAPAL. Smile, say Thank you, Compliment, Approval/Praise & Attention/Listening.

   

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Self development is essential not only in real life but also when you are into business that produces unlimited income in internet.

Be Your Own Boss (BYOB) List

The three young businessmen are example of who  contributed great impact  in the field of communication and business. They are  better known for their good qualities  as businessmen and boss as cited below.

Ayon sa kultura ng ating bansa,  na minana pa natin sa ating mga ninuno,  ang way of living natin ay pamamasukan, or di kaya naman ay yung tinatawag na self employed.  Pag pumunta sa ibang bansa, empleado pa rin, tumaas nga naman  ang sahod, pero empleado pa rin. Dito tayo sinanay ng ating mga magulang, school, at maging gobierno natin. 

Kaya naman, kapag ang isang mamamayan ay nagdisisyon na maging negosyante o maging boss, tumatahak  ito ng mahaba at mahirap na proseso, wika nga sa english eh “the long and winding road.

Heto ang mga tips na kailangan nating  tandaan  at pagdaanan upang ang pagtawid natin sa kabilang pangpang, mula sa employee’s mindset to entreprenuer’s mindset, ay maging matagumpay.

1.  Definite Purpose. Focus tayo sa ating  malinaw at kongkretong goal na gusto nating maabot.. Mayroon tayong tinatarget  na gusto nating marating. Kung hindi ito malinaw, tayo ay  hindi mag iisip ng mabuti, magtratrabaho ng bara barabay na lang, at  kontento na sa pagiging pangkaraniwan  at makikisabay na lang sa malaking agos ng buhay.

2. Ambition. Ito ung gusto  mong makuha out of your goal.  Ito nag magbibigay sa iyo lakas para ipagpatuloy na ibigay ang best bilang tao at sa pagtratrabaho.

3. Discipline. Sabi nga sa mga kasabihan: “Self management is the best management.” “Practising  a good habit is synonymous to praying.”  Discipline is one of the fruits of Holy Spirit.

4. Kill Procrastination. This is somewhat similar to discipline but is referring  to time conscious. What you can today, instead of doing it for tomorrow.

5. Avoid Negativity.  Fill your mind with positive things  like love, appreciation and gratifications. Always look at the bright side of things.

6. Persistence.  This is a quality that allows someone to continue doing something or trying to do something even though it is difficult or opposed by other people.

7. Decisiveness.  Proper decision making. For example, you need to consider to put bigger investment because it will give you higher ROI.

8. Risk Taker.  If you are not willing to take risk, you are not a businessman. You should have the courage  to face whatever the consequences may occur.

9, Mingle with Like Minded Individuals.  Surround yourself with the kind of people you want to be like.

10. Focus. This refers to giving attention to what is essential and avoid focusing on things that will bring you garbage.

11. Passion.  Give your highest aspirations and burning inspirations.

12. Open Mindedness. Stay humble. Keep yourself down to earth and low profile specially to beginners and newbies.

13. Not a Quick Rich Scheme.  This is a long term in nature and process is done through little by little principle with hardwork, patience and perseverance.

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How to develop a right mental attitude?

During a business seminars, many of the attendees ask this question: "How can I become successful in my online network marketing?"

The speaker replied: "You are only an attitude away from success."
This is commonly known to networkers as right mental attitude.

How to develop a right mental attitude?

Kapag napasok ka sa mundo ng network marketing, offline o online, hindi pwedeng hindi mo maririnig o mapa-familiarize ang  word na "positive affirmation."  Hindi lahat ng sumubuk dito ay naging effective  dahil iba iba ang composition ng karanasan ng mga tao.

Explain ko sa iyo kung bakit. God made possible  people discover this explanation so that we can appreciate our existence as a  person, that we are born in the image of God.

Ang ating mind  ay binubuo ng subconscious mind at conscious mind.   Ang subconscious mind ay memory storage  (parang computer ang dating)  na kung  saan ang lahat ng ating karanasan simula pagkabata hanggang sa edad natin ngaun ay nakaregistered.  Sa loob ng malaking  subconscious mind natin  ay may separate part which is the Conscious MInd. Ang conscious mind natin ay siyang connection natin sa Diyos bilang pagpapatunay  na tayo ay nilikha niya at siya nangungusap sa atin sa pamamagitan ng ating Conscious Mind.   

Kaya pansinin mo ang tao, pagkasama sama man ng ugali nito, pilit na may lalabas ding kabutihan sa kanya.

Ang ating karanasan ang magdidikta kung panu tayo mag isip. Ang magpapakilala sa atin ay ang ating  karanasan, ang pagkakaalam  natin sa ating sarili at tingin ng maraming tao sa atin.  Sabi ni John Milton Fogg, " Your thoughts and the thoughts of others about who you are the pattern of habitual thoughts formed in your belief system.  Most people think 'system' are so complicated  that they are powerless to change them. Maintaining  that beliefs are habits of thoughts we have.   And because they are simply habits, we know  how we got them, and know how to change to."

Habits are things we think or do without conscious attention.........without being aware of them.  The moment we are aware of of what we are thinking or doing, it's no longer a  habit,   It's a CHOICE.

The habits of beliefs about yourself are important to emphasize because they are controlling  what we have, do and be in our lives. Unless we do change our habit of thinking,  we cannot get what we really want in life.

Hangga't hindi naaabsorb ito ng ating subconscious mind, mangingibabaw pa rin ang luma  nating pag iisip.  WE WILL FORM NEW HABIT OF THINKING,  REPEAT  AND REPEAT ALL OVER AGAIN until your subconscious mind  is dominated by the new set of thinking patters. The conscious mind overpowers the subconscious mind.

The longer the time you have'nt conscious about your thinking,  the more effort you need to exert creating new pattern of thinking.

New patern of thinking habits are consists of happy attitude, love, appreciations, gratification, mga bagay na gusto nating mangyari sa hinaharap.

Ang ating isip ang nagiisang bagay dito sa mundo na may total or 100% control tayo.  LIsten to this analogy:  Kapag ba may isang ibon na gustong dumapo sa iyong ulo para iputan ka, papayag ka ba? Syempre hindi,  Ang gagawin mo paalisin mo ang ibon para hindi ka maiputan, Katulad din naman ng ating environment na  naapektohan tayo ng magaganda at masasamang elemento, na kung papayag tayo na mapektohan nito, binigyan mo na rin sila ng permiso na apektohan ka, methaporically speaking, binigyan mo ng permiso na iputan ng ibon.

Learn to control your mind. Success require change.  Change in your attitude, habits and even in the way you project yourself.

Back to positive affirmation.  The most common are:   I can do it.  I can do the change. I am successful in whatever I turn..  I am an alpha leader. So on and so on.

Have you heard of reverse affirmation?  Paanu  naman kaya ito?

Positive affirmation:   Magaling akong leader.
Reverse affirmation:    Ang tingin mo sa akin ay magaling na leader.

Pag ganito ang ginawa mo, habang sinasabi mo na magaling kang leader sa prospect or lead mo, mapipilitan kang tumayo, magsalita, umakto ng katulad ng isang tunay na leader dahil yun ang gusto mong makita ng prospects mo.  At pag nakarinig ka ng magandang feedback mula sa kanila, mas madaling tanggapin ng isip ang comment na galing sa ibang tao, kaysa galing sa sarili mo.

Sabi kasi ng ibang tao, napepekehan daw sila sa ginagawa nila.  Ganun talaga yun, fake it until you make it. Always aim for the best.  Huwag makontento sa gawang "bara barabay," hindi nabigyan ng mahabang pag iisip, pagpaplano. Give love to your work, give time by thinking how to improve your finished product.

Sa bawat haharap ka sa prospect, makikipag usap, ulit ulitin mo ang katagang ito, wag kang titigil hangga't hindi nagkakatutuo.

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HOW TO OVERCOME YOUR FEAR IN YOUR NETWORKING BUSINESS?

 How to overcome your fear in your networking business?

Sino  ang  gustong maging sucesssful sa kanilang  network marketing business? For sure lahat ng

pumasok sa ganitong business ay lahat gustong umunlad ang buhay. Pero bakit kaya 90% pataas ay hindi na-achieve ang kanilang goal. Bakit kaya?

And I believe na ito ang pumipigil sa mga entrepreneur.   Itong 4 letter word  na’to. FEAR.

Pag  may nararamdaman kang kahit anong takot sa business mo, apektado ang resulta nito.

Kung  ikaw ay network marketer at may fear  ka sa pagharap sa maraming  tao,sa  tingin mo  ano  ang pwedeng   mangyayari?  Ang  mangyayari, hindi ka makakapag -take ng  action, pag hindi ka nag- take ng  action, hindi mo makukuha ang gusto mong  result. At  pag  hindi mo  nakuha  ang mga small actions  mo  katulad  ng : first pay in,  first leader, team building ,  ano  sa  tingin mo ang

mangyayari sau, syempre   hindi mo makukuha ang  bigger goal mo.

Hangga’t hindi mo nao-overcome yang  fear  na  yan, paulit ulit lang  at  paikot ikot lang ang

ginagawa  mong  walang  resulta.      At usually  ang  common  fear  na  nararanasan  ng  networker ay  fear  of change.Kasi nga  dati,  hindi  naman  sila  nagpropormote,  hindi   sila  

nag iinvite,  hindi sila parating  na re- reject,  hindi sila laging   nag- eexplain,  hindi

sila  nagbbuild ng team  so ang nagyayari  hindi na  nila  binabago ang bagay na dapat

nilang baguhin. yan ang  tinatawag  na fear of change.

Ngaun ang pag uusapan natin ay different types of  fears  na  kadalasang  nararanasan ng  network marketer, Affiliate marketer or any marketer  which involve opportunity at kung paanu ito ma oovercome. Once na overcome mo  ang fear na ito, doon ka magsisimulang  magkakaroon ng resulta.

So ngaun , gusto mo na bang magkaroon ng resulta  sa pamamagitan ng   pag overcome sa   mga

Fear  na meron ka.

Bago natin pag usapan  ang  types of  fears,  alam mo ba na okey lang  ang may fear, lalo na kung ikaway first Timer sa  business mo. Okey lang yun, normal lang yun. Yung mga bagay na first time

mo palang  gagawin  talagang nakakatakot  yan. Example, sino d2 ung marunong mag drive, di bat

nakakatakot humawak ng manebela  kapag hindi ka pa marunong,  pag may kumakausap sa iyo,

ayaw  mong  paestorbo dahil nakaconcentrate ka sa pagmamaneho mo. Nasa isip  mo na  baka

mabangga kayo,  nasa isip mo na baka makasagasa  ka. Kung ano ano pumapasok sa

isip mo kasi nga first mo pa lang.

Pero after one month,ay simple lang  pala, hindi naman pala  mahirap. Dahan  dahan  nagkakaroon  ka na ng coordination,  dahan  dahan  mo na siyang nakakabisa. After 6 six monts, after one year

napakagaling mo nang  mag drive.

 Another example….sino yung  naalala  pa yung unang pag pasok sa school  noong kinder?  noong Grade 1? Marami pa nga jan ay  umiiyak pa  pagka iniwan  na  ng mga  nanay nila.  Eventually, unti unti pag nakilala mo  na mabait  pala ung si  teacher marunong ka nang makipagkaibigan sa di mo dati kakilala  may bago ka ng mga kalaro yung upuan  nagagamay mo nang upuan. Ganun, unti unti.nawawala na ang takot mo. Normal lang yun.

Another example, sino ang naalala  pa ung first time na mag ka boy friend girlfriend,  lalo na sa mga Boys ,yung  unang pangliligaw  na  nagawa nila,  di ba nag kakanda bulol bulol ka pa., takot na takot ka  na  baka ma- busted,  baka ma reject at kung ano ano pang uncomfortable feelings na nararnasan mo. Pero kapag-girl friend  mo  na, ayun ok na , tanggal ang lahat ng kaba mo.

 Every thing na gagawin  mo  ng first time / nakakatakot!!

Dito naman tau sa ating negosyo, pag  first time kang  kakausap ng prospect, talagang  papawisan  ng  todo kahit naka aircon ka pa,  mauuhaw ka kahit di ka nauuhaw. Pag mag prepresent  ka  ng  business, di ka talaga mapakali, dahil baka  hindi maganda ang pagka present mo Baka may mali kang nagagawa o nasasabi.     Pero  habang  patuloy  mo  siyang  ginagawa,  patuloy  mo  siyang  iaaral, unti unti/ nakakabisa mo na ang mga  ginagawa mo.  

Kung  ano man yung nararanaasan mo ngaun,  takot kang  kumausap  ng  prospect,  naiilang ka pag mag pe -present, takot kang magbuild ng team, o anumang takot meron ka  wag  kang  mag alala  dahil  normal lang  yan.

Now pag usapan natin  ang  4 major fears

First. Rejection.   Ayaw na ayaw natin ng mare-reject. Walang may gusto na sila ay mareject , GUSTOKONG MAREALIZE MO, NA HINDI DAPAT  KATAKOTAN  ANG  REJETION  DAHIL  araw araw natin yan nararanasan.  Example. Galing ka sa SM  nag shopping at  ang bigat ng iyong pinamili. Hassle  sa  pagbubuhat   sa sakayan. Eto na  nagpapara ka ng taxi,  tanong ng driver, saan ka,,,sinagot mo naman……sinagot ka ulit ng driver: hindi ako rumorota dun… sa iba ka na langpara ka ulit ng taksi,,,,,ayaw  na naman……………Ganyan  ang  ating  

 pangkaraniwang  buhay, araw araw  rin tayong  nakakaranas na ma-reject.

 Tulad din naman yan sa ating  business Hindi lahat ng tao,ay makikita yung nakita mo dun sa business. Hindi lahat  ng  prospects at leads  na  makakausap ay sasali.   Tandaan mo, hindi ikaw ang  nireject nila, kundi yung  opportunity na ino-offer mo.. Kung  opportunity ang reject nila, sino an gang nawalan, eh di sila.  The next time na may  mag reject sa iyo ang sasabihin mo: Thank you very much for your time. Napakaraming  tao  ang  naghahanap  ng business na ginagawa  natin.

 Imagine  this,  hindi rin maganda  kung  lahat sasali sa iyo…Bakit? Kung  Lahat ng tao sasali sa

 iyo,  lahat ng pag uugali na sa grupo mo na….kasama  na jan yung mga pasaway at   negative  

 na  sakit  sa  ulo, walang  gagawin  kundi  sisihin ka  kung  bakit  wala  pa  siyang  resulta.

Di ba?,  hindi rin  maganda……nakakabwusit  at nakakairita…..Salamat  kay Lord  na  hindi

 lahat sumasali dahil you  are looking  only  for the right people.  Alam mo ba kahit yung

 mga top earners, at kumikita na  ng  malalaki ,   na rereject pa  rin sila.  Ang  pagkakaiba ng mga

 successful networker at neophyte, ang  mga top earners, hindi nila yun  dinidibdib hindi sila

 emotional.

  Second.  Public speaking -  Sabi ng marami ganito,hindi ko kaya yang ginagawa mo,mahiyain akong tao hindi ako marunong magsalita sa harap ng marming tao.mag video o magwebinar pa kaya. At baka  kakailangin ko ng mahabang  oras para pag aralan yan  marami rin  akong  ibang

 ginagawa. Let me share my story. Ang akala ko kapag naka online marketing,  hindi na

 kailangan ng personal appearance  sa  mga tao…dahil  Malaki ang fear ko sa public

 speaking. Mali pala ako,  ditto walang ngang personal appearance pero ditto mas kailangan 

 ang iyong  personal touch dahil ang nagcoconnect sa inyo ay internet.  

Hindi nga kayo  nagkikita ng personal pero kailangang maramdaman ng prospect mo  na

tutuong  tao ang kausap nila at kailangan ma build ang trust niya sa iyo.  Kaya yung pinaka

iiwasan ko, hindi ko  pala  pwedeng  iwasan , kailangang  ipakita ko sa prospect na I am a real person available to talk with them, to present to them what they need, And you can do this only

through   Effective Speech .   So I push myself to learn/ about communication and  proper

communications. Sa umpisa talagang mahirap /at walang madali pag nag uumpisa.

At  Pag uusapan natin  yan sa no. 3

3.       Third. Unknown  -  Most of the time, ang  mga bagay na kinakatakotan  natin ay yung mga bagay na hindi  natin  naiintindihan.   Ang  dami kung  nakausap  na  ayaw nilang  mag  internet

marketing.  Akala kasi nila  mhirap itong gawin at wala silang alam tungkol sa computer . Ang  hindi  nila  alam madali  lang  itong  gawin,  aaralin mo lan siya.

Ang   pinamaganda rito   pwede mo siyang gawin  sa  bahay.. Another benefit pa nito ikaw ang

magdidikta  kung  magkano  ang  kikitain mo.  Sa  mga oFW, ang malakas na kalaban  nila 

ay home sick.  Dito sa negosyong ito,  kapiling  mo ang  pamilya  mo /habang nagtratrabaho

ka sa bahay.   Kung  makikita  lang  ng  mga  tao, ang  napakagandang    benefits  ng  

negosyong  ito,  napakalaki  ng  agwat  nito  kung ikukumpara  sa  ibang  klase  ng  pinagkakaitaan.

Ung  mga  hindi  sumasali, hindi lang  nila  naiintindihan ang  benefits  ng  business  na  ito

 Pag may fear ka ng unknown, anu  ang  kailangan  mong  gawin?  Ang  kailangan  gawin ay unti unti  mo  syang  aralin.  For example  takot  kang   kumausap  sa  prospect…feeling  nila  kakainin  sila  ng  prospect . ang  way  mo  para mawala  ang  fear  mo  ay unit unti  alamin  mo kung  

panu  siya  kausapin.  Halimbawa   may  nagtanong…. Hi oyie !panu ba mag join  jan sa  

business mo….o hh …wag  kang  kakabahan….may  mga  technics  jan  kung  ano  ang   mga  exacto mong  sasabihin  mo  sa  kanila……..pag  tinanong   ka panu ba sumali jan,  tanungin  mo  rin  muna  sila  ng  ganito: napanood mu na ba ung video  presentation  namin or seminaR….wala  

kang  ibang  sasabihin….yun lang.   Kapag  sinagot ka  nya  ng  oo, ito  ang susunod mong itatanong  mo  sa  kanya….ano  ang pinakanagustuhan  dun  sa presentation seminar?

Bakit  effective  yun…dahil  ang  tawag  sa ganung  wordings  ay leading….ni le lead mo  yung  prospect mo  dun sa gusto mung  pag usapan ninyo. Kung  anu yung  bagay  na nagkaroon  ng  interest  ang  prospect mo na  narinig  nya  o mapanood  dun sa video or seminar.  Pag unti unti mo nang nalaman  ang  mga  sasabihin  mo,  sa  tingin  mo, matatakot ka pa ba?  Hindi na dahil

hindi na  unknown  yung  sasabihin  mo  dun  sa  prospect. Dahan dahan mu siyang  aralin.

4    Fourth.  Failure…ito  ang  pinakamalaking  dahilan  kung  bakit  hindi nagtatagumpay  ang  mga

networker  sa  kani-kanilang  negosyo.Ito  ang  no. 1 reason.  Takot  silang  mag fail…..kaya  ang

gagawin  ay  hindi  na  lang  itutuloy  or  hindi  I wo work out.  Ang  failure  ay  isa lamang  

paraan  para matutu  ka.   Kilala  nyo  po ba si Thomas Edison,  ung nakaimbento  ng  

telepono…hindi po -  bombilya po…Si Thomas  Edison, sinubukan  siya  ng  maraming  

beses, maraming  combination  para  mapailaw  yung  bombilya….at naka 1000 beses nyang

sinubukan  hanggat  matagpuan niya  ang  right  filament para  mapailaw  niya  yung 

bumbilya.  

Ganito  ang  mindest  ni  Thomas Edison…..napatunayan niya na may 999 na  hindi  pwedeng

i-combine  para  makapag pailaw ng bumbilya…..Kung  sa  negosyo  naman  natin….parang  

ganito………nag post ka sa facebook…..isang  buwan  ka  nang  nagpo-post dun pero  walang 

pumapansin ……ibig sabihin…….may mali dun sa  ginagawa  mo at  yun  ang  tutuklasin  mo 

para  yung  nagawa  mong   mali  ay maitatama mo……

Panu  natin  mao-overcome ang  fear?

1    First.  Examine your fear/fears.  Be honest with yourself/of what are your fears…..if you  ignore

your fears,if  u didn’t address your  fears well  that would  not bring you success.

2       Second. .Evaluate the worst that can  happen with  your  fears…..halimbawa  takot kang magsalita sa harap ng Tao .most likely to happen/ kung .magsalita  ka  sa harap nila  at alam na alam mo  

hindi  ka pa magaling magsalita, baka may malimutan ka/  ano ang pwedeng  mangyayari?…ang  pwede  lang   mangyari ay  hindi sila sasali….yun lang..kung  hindi sila sumali…anong nangyari  sa  sau,?,,,,nabawasan  ba  mukha  mo? may nawala sa parte ng katawan mo?   Buong buo ka pa rin di ba?. Walang nawala sa iyo  bagkus nadagdagan ka ng karanasan na ganun pala ang magsalita  sa harap ng mga  tao kapag baguhan ka palang.  Meron namang ganito,  practice ng practice kung panu magsalita………pero  walang lakas ng loob na gawin ito sa actual……….wala rin……….ang dapat -  practice at actual.  Kapag ito ay paulit ulit mong  ginawa………mawawala  ang  fear  factor mo…………..hanggang maramdaman mo na natutuwa na pala yung kausap mo at ine enjoy mo na rin ang ginagawa mo.

 At one thing more  .di ba sabi natin kanina…….hindi   talaga   lahat  ng  kakausapin  mo sasali……….siya yun…..siya yung  kasama sa  mga  hindi  sasali…Ang maganda nito  kahit hindi

nag join sa iyo  , napagpractisan mo naman sila… Gets mo?

Third.    FORCE YOURSELF TO FACE YOUR FEAR………Kung  alam  mo  na wala palang  dapat ikatakot, bakit  ka  matatakot…….ngaun  kaya  mo  nang  harapin  ang  iyong  takot.

Meron akong KWENTO……….SA  ISANG KAHARIAN sa isang malayong malayong lugar ay may isang prinsesa.  Habang naglalakad  lakad sa kanilang kaharian, nagtataka siya kung  bakit halos lahat ng nakakasalubong ay  lungkot n alungkot at takot na takot ang kanilang mga mukha..  At tinanong niya ung isang nyang nakasalubong ng ganito: “Bakit po ganyan ang mga mukha nyo, tila may kinakatakotan kayo. “Alam mo ba, hija, na mamaya  lang ay darating ang isang higante na naghahasik ng lagim dito sa atin. Maghahamon na naman siya ng makakalaban. Segi, hija , iwan nakita  baka abutin tayo d2……”  Ang prinsesa ay na-curious dun sa higante dahil first time syang makakakita ng higante.  Habang natatanaw niya ung higante, medyo kinabahan din siya dahil Malaki nga pala ito,  Pero ang napapansin nya habang palapit ng palapit siya sa higante, hindi naman pala siya ganoon kalakihan. Unti unti, nabawasan ang takot nya. Nang may limang metro na lang ang kanilang pagitan, dun niya napansin na konti lang pala ang agwat ng taas nilang dalawa..   Sabi nya sa sarili nya, kaya kong labanan ang higanteng ito na sinasabi nila.  At  tinanong nya muna yung sinasabi nialng hegante ng ganito : “Sino  ka ba na naghahasik ng takot ditto sa amin.”     Sagot ng higante:    “Marami akong  pangalan. Sa Chinese ako ay ku che,  Sa Japan ay hyundai , at dyan sa inyo ako ay “Fear” rari….joke po dagdag ko na lang yun. “Sabi ng prinses sa  higante ,uwi na ako, at sasabihin ko sa aming kaharian   na hindi ka pala dapat katakutan.  Sila lang ang naglagay ng takot sa isipan nila. ”

 Ganyan na ganyan din po tayo sa tutuong   buhay..Sundan natin yung   3 tips how to overcome  fears   na ginawa ng prinsesa:

1.Examine your fears.   Inamin ng  prinsesa  na natatakot din siya pero inalam  nya ung tutuong  pangyayari.                 

2 Evaluate the worst thing that may happen.  Sinubukan nyang  tingnan kung  dangerous  nga ba ung sinasabi nilang higante.   At natuklasan  hindi naman pala siya higante,,,,,nananakot lang

 3. Force your self to face the fear.  Kapag nakita mo na walang palang basehan ung tinatawag mong

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THE POWER OF ATTITUDE

In the  entertainment page of a newspaper, we commonly see the movie guide,  the celebrity section and the mind twisiting  portion like the jigsaw puzzle, the word puzzle and the "Hanapin ang mali!" which is one of our favourites.   We, people are expert in finding what is the different, the flaw, the spot, the fault and  most popularly known as the negative attitude of our life's system.

Negative attitude is the state of being negative. (hehehe ang galing definition ano?) Being  negative , it was  emanated from our negative emotions interacts with us like pride, lust, anger, envy, glutonny, anxiety and slothness and even in  pleasant things  in excess like over enthuasm, passions, elations or even certains forms of love, can also generate negative emotions.

By answering  the questions below we can determine how we react negatively in our daily lives.  Be honest with your answers.
1.  Do you complain often of "feeling bad"?
2.   Are you sarcastic and offensive in your conversation?
3.   Do you frequently make mistakes in your work?
4.   Do you delibrately avoid the association of anyone?
5.   Do you like your occupation?
6.    Are you envious of those who excell you?
7.    Do you often feel self pity?
8.    To which do you devote most time, thinking success or failure?
9.    Do you find fault with other people at the slightest provocation?
10.  Do you learn something of value from all  your mistakes and mistakes of others?

Some times we do not know we are so negative in our reactions. When we find our selves to be negative,  admit it and find ways to change our attitude for the better.  If you are good in mathematics,  I'll give you tips. When a negative integer is added to a negative integer, it will give you greater negative answer.  And the other way around, if a negative number is to be added to a greater positive  number, you will get a positive result.

That is the same also with our daily life,  to eliminate the negative attitude in our life, we must put more positive actions with courage and determinations everytime we think, feel and do. Positive thinking drives your fear away, builds self confidence and gives the power to achieve accomplishments after accomplishments.

During a business seminars,  one of the attendees ask this question:  " How can I become successful in my network marketing business?"

The speaker said:  "You are only an attitude away from success."

All personal achievements start with how a person thinks.  If a man thinks he can make it, chances are he will achieve something.  But if he thinks he can't make it, chances are are he won't succeed.

All the things are provided needed to make achievements are already installed in YOU - the THOUGHT AND BELIEF. All you need to do is to exercise your power to think the right  beliefs. Your success will  definitely come from YOU, not from upline, downline, crossline,  your product and company.  Yes, they are factors but  ultimately you are the main source of your success. No one will do it for you. ONLY YOU.

Do you know of one thing in this world that you have 100% contol? Its your thought.  No one can control another unless that person gets permission.  So you wanna be aware of the powerful mind you have!

 Don't waste your precious  time on  blaming, complaining, resentment, anger, bitterness, jealousy, feeling victimized by something, anxiety and fear that paralyzed our calmness.
Calmness gives a cool situation to think of better and safe idea, having faith with our Almighty Father God.

Let's go back to our equation:

Right Beliefs =  Right Actions
Wrong Beliefs = Wrong Actions

Learning these process is done in a gradual (little by little) manner  continously and one day you will be amazed that you have leveled up.

 Success requires change. Change in your attitude, habits and even in the way you project yourself.

If you have developed  right beliefs, automatically you have developed RIGHT MENTAL ATTITUDE.

 Again,  you are only an attitude away to your desired result!

Right Mental Attitude = Right Approach
Wrong Mental Attitude = Wrong Approach.

So, what is the right approach  in sponsoring  for MLM business?

1. You should have right mental attitude.  
Even all stars and moon fall, winning is always in your mind. Winning mind always search for the best solutions.

2. You must have abundant mindset.
a) You must not look desperate and needy.
b)  You must not look pushy, argumental, defensive, pleaseful and convincing type but lead the prospect in a way how your opportunity will help him and understand his objections or real concern for the matter.
c)  You are the one giving favor  by  giving them financial  and time freedom.  Make a way that the  prospect  will not buy  the idea that you want him to join because you wanted income.

 3.  Brand yourself as a leader to lead, teach, guide and direct your group to a definite goal.
a) Give your group a step by step guidelines and strategies on the mechanics of the business.
b) When the member is going out of direction, motivate him to the best of your ability.
c)  Show and give them the best examples  because they are following you.

I will share a video that really touches my awareness that change my negative way of life to a peaceful and  fulfilling a definite goal- financial and time freedom and enjoy what life may bring.

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