Do you want to be likeable, trustworthy and respectable professionally or personally?

The law of attraction has the same connotation with the bible's verse what you sow is what you reap. If you lack self confidence, you can develop it  by giving or promoting high steem  for others. If you don't have  friends, you can have friends by getting genuinely interested with the other people. If you feel you're unloved, you can have this by starting to love and be compassionate with others.  

May nakausap ako, sabi niya, “You cannot give what you don't have.” Sabi pa niya, “I can't love him because I hate him so much.”  Then I told her, "Love him." Panu ko  siya mamahalin  eh galit na galit ako sa kanya,” balik niya sa akin.  Sabi ko ulit sa kanya,  “Then love her.”” Panu nga? sabi naman niya.”  Ang tanong ko uli naman sa kanya, "What is the product of giving forgiveness and sacrifice to win his heart again. She answered Love.  LOVE is a NOUN. To love is a  VERB.  And  verb is an action word. So to  get love(noun) , you have to act and give love (verb). Because your ultimate goal is to become LOVEABLE, LIKEABLE, TRUSTWORHTY and RESPECTABLE. And if you do these stuff, the magic of the law of attraction will come to you naturally, people will find you likable, trustworthy, respectable and high steemed person.

Here are some good tips from Brian Tracy, a well known writer,  speaker and businessman.

The deepest human desire is to desire to feel  important. When you go thru life building self confidence and making other people feel important and valuable they will like you, welcome you and will open every door for  you. And this is how to become magnetic  both professionally and personally. In business, making people feel important will help you in every business situation from negotiating terms, to  borrowing money,  influencing key customers. If you are in sales the way customers will feel with you, will determine your level of sales and referrals  more than any other factor. Being magnetic  will make you popular, desirable, influential and persuasive. As  the poet said, anyone can forget everything you have said,  but they will always remember  the feelings  attached to it. 

First, just smile, on open honest happy to see you smile wants people’s heart  makes them feel important and causes  them  unconsciously to like you from  the first  moment. Each person has a deep down  mean to be accepted unconditionally by other people. Without judgement or criticism. And your smile tells them that you accept them and like them  unconditionally.

Second, promote highest  self steem  in others with appreciation. Every one loves to be appreciated for something. Anything  that they have done to someone else. And  when you say the magic word thank you more often, you make peole feel important and happy.  You raise their self steem,  increase their desire to help you and to do things for you.

Third, give genuine compliments whenever you  admire a possession, trade, accomplishments  about this. As Abrahan Lincolm said. “  Every likes compliments,  admire people choices in clothing, hairstyle, cars, briefcase, purse  or even his office lamp. Admire their homes or partners, degree  or certificate, Whenever you give compliments genuinely he or she has obviously invested time and emotion., you boost her self image  and built high steem. As a result, they will find you charming.

Fourth, build their confidence through approval of others. Give praise and approval generously for both small and large accomplishments. When there is something worthwhile, say how good they are on the job they done. Build them self confidence and high self steem. When you praise your spouse or children, when you praise your staff, customers and suppliers you make them feel important and cause them to see u as charming,

Fifth, give them full attention. People feel  valuable and  important when you are listening and respected. Whenever you listen closely to another person when he is talking, his self steem goes up. His brain releases endorphin which means human  nature’s happy drug,  And he feels good about his ignored  presence.

If you always pays value to a person by listening attentively by hanging on every word when you do she wants  up to you finds you to be charming.

If you go life looking for little  opportunities  to make people valuable and special, smile at them, as you are glad to see them. Thank them regularly, complement them sincerely, praise them lavishly, listen to them attentively when they speak.

What you had wholeheartedly  given, it will bring back to you thousand folds of blessings.

Let's  remember it by the acronym ST. CAPAL. Smile, say Thank you, Compliment, Approval/Praise & Attention/Listening.

   

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